Is There a Certain Way To be a Woman? 🤨👩🏻

 I'd like to start with a question for my female readers. Do you think you're a real woman? It's a little heavy when you say that, isn't it? Most of you even said, "what's the matter? of course we're women." you say. Yes, we're women, but are we "Real" Women? Or let me ask you, what is a real woman and who is she? 

 "Real" woman who is between 1.65 and 1.75 in height, weighs 55-60 pounds (which can also be below), does not notice a brunette, blonde, or Auburn. 

We have a freer world in this century. Everyone can love what they want, wear what they want, or speak as they want. This absurd phenomenon of beauty is somehow an example imposed on us by social media.

There are many overweight people today. 38-78% are known to be women. (Calculated based on the world and European measurement) Overweight women who love themselves are 3-12%. 

I can give you the biggest example from myself. I'm an overweight woman. I love my hair so much because it has sweet curly. I love my eyes. I like my eyelashes because I think they're long. And I like different styles. For example, I like "e-girl" or "ullzang" styles. But I can't buy those clothes, and even if I do, I don't get a chance to wear them. Because either only small sizes are produced, or I'm pressured by strange looks when I wear them. 

I know there are dozens of women who have been through this. Because even if you are healthy and overweight, they only focus on weight loss.

Of course, it's not just women who are overweight who live this woman. Women who are weaker than" normal " are also exposed to the opposite of these conversations. But it's forgotten. Not eating can be a disease. Maybe that person is fighting this disease. They're just criticizing it without anyone even knowing it...

And what does that explain to us?

A woman is a woman. Just because a woman is overweight doesn't stop being a woman. And because she's too weak, she doesn't stop being a woman. Women are women because they laugh. A woman is a woman because she is beautiful in every way. 

Although there are traces of cracks in a woman's body, it is a woman.

A woman is a woman, although she has cellulite.

A woman is a woman with skin color.

A woman is a woman with scars.

A woman is a woman with a headscarf on her head.

A woman is a woman, even if she is trans.

A woman is just a woman. And there is no such thing as a" real " woman or even never was. 

A woman exists to be loved. Love women for what they are.

I want to finish with the lyrics of a beautiful song and its video. 

Women, talk, and men stand behind them and support them.

You can go to Harvard You can be a pilot You can be an astronaut But first, be a woman

First, be a woman

-Footnote- 

I wanted to share a lot of examples of strong women. But even Google still can't beat some things, so I couldn't even put normal pictures. Instead, I'll say goodbye to you with a video from 3-4 years ago.

Girls Ages 6-18 Talk About Body Image | Allure

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